Showing posts with label family. Show all posts
Showing posts with label family. Show all posts

Monday, May 6, 2013

NYC in Pictures

My daughter and I took a bus trip to NYC this past Saturday. Our group took a walk through Central Park, then we were on our own for the rest of the day. We spent our afternoon shopping in Times Square. 

Mosaic honoring John Lennon at Strawberry Fields in Central Park

Yours truly, waiting for our bus outside Central Park.

My daughter, Emily.
The Smurf in Times Square that wanted my money.

Red M&M at M&M's World

In Times Square, right before we were handed free t-shirts from
a walk/run cancer fundraiser that took place that morning!
Lunch at Hard Rock Cafe.  Cheers!
What? No veggies? This is what I was craving and it tasted delicious!

We spotted the The Naked Cowboy!

Monday, December 24, 2012

A classic and timely song for this Christmas



The Little Drummer Boy/Peace On Earth by David Bowie and Bing Crosby.

RIP children of Newtown

Sunday, December 16, 2012

Tears in Heaven



Would you know my name
If I saw you in heaven?
Would you feel the same
If I saw you in heaven?
I must be strong and carry on
'Cause I know I don't belong here in heaven

Would you hold my hand
If I saw you in heaven?
Would you help me stand
If I saw you in heaven?
I'll find my way through night and day
'Cause I know I just can't stay here in heaven

Time can bring you down, time can bend your knees
Time can break your heart, have you begging please, begging please

Beyond the door there's peace I'm sure
And I know there'll be no more tears in heaven

Would you know my name
If I saw you in heaven?
Would you feel the same
If I saw you in heaven?
I must be strong and carry on
'Cause I know I don't belong here in heaven

~ Eric Clapton


I can't wrap my brain around the Connecticut elementary school shooting. What kind of evil causes a person to kill 20 small children in cold blood? The fact that this is happening more frequently has me frightened for myself and my family. I know we can't allow ourselves to live in fear but something needs to be done to stop the madness. I don't have the answers. All I can do is pray for the victims' families and the survivors that witnessed this horrible crime. Their lives have been altered forever. 

Thursday, September 27, 2012

Learning to be a Ninja!


My daughter and I started R.A.D. Systems physical defense classes last night. R.A.D. stands for Rape Aggression Defense. I've heard nothing but positive things about these classes. Our town police dept. is running a five-session course for free so I figured why not!  When I first asked my daughter if she wants to do it she said "no way," so I let it go. I asked one more time and tried to entice her by saying she could learn to be a ninja. LOL (I don't know why, but she loves ninjas). The the day before the classes started she texted me at work and said she wants to be a ninja. :)

Last night's class was about two hours of talk and about a half hour of basic defense moves. Next week will be more intense with the entire class spent learning more moves. At the fifth class we'll be doing a simulation training, which sounds pretty intimidating to me! The instructors (all police officers) will attack us and we have to defend ourselves and get away. They'll expect us to yell, kick, punch, hit below the belt - whatever it takes. Eeek! I'm normally pretty shy so this is going to be a big challenge for me. I also can't picture my 14 year old daughter doing this at all!

I guess this would rate as one of those "step out of your comfort zone" moments.

What have you done that was completely out of your comfort zone?

Monday, September 3, 2012

Happy Scrap-versary to me!


A layout I did for a challenge in 2010.

I'm the person who can remember what happened on a particular date 20 years ago, but I can't remember what I did last weekend. For example, I started scrapbooking in the month of September, 1998. I know that because my daughter was 2 months old when the obsession began. I wanted to make her a baby book that was different than the traditional book you can pick up at Hallmark. I'd heard of scrapbooking but I thought it was dumb. Who wants stickers, decorative borders and crazy shapes in their photo album? (ha!)

One day I received an advertisement in the mail for a baby book "kit of the month" club. I was intrigued. The first package included a nice baby themed 3-ring binder (which I still have), a journaling pen, adhesive squares, journaling prompts, patterned papers and stickers for $15, which I thought was a great deal. I signed up and my new obsession arrived a few weeks later. Too bad it didn't include any instructions. I was forced to figure out on my own what to do with the box of stuff they sent me. I ended up checking out Michael's, A.C. Moore and JoAnn's. I quickly discovered my local stores have better selections and prices on supplies so I cancelled the shipments after a few months.

After we hooked up to the internet at home in the year 2000, I discovered the online world of scrapbooking through message boards, swaps, sharing layouts and shopping. Thank you, World Wide Web, for introducing me to all my computer friends! I've learned so much from them! Online shopping also helped fuel my addiction until my favorite local scrapbook store opened in town 6 years ago.

My scrapbooking anniversary is this month. I've been scrapbooking for as long as I've had my daughter.

Holy crap, I've been scrapbooking for 14 years!

I took a little break in 2010 and 2011 but other than that, scrapbooking has been my thing. It was my first real crafting obsession. I don't see myself ever giving up on it completely. It's also pretty cool that the little person who inspired my hobby is now my scrapbooking buddy.

This is the first layout I ever did. I think it's pretty horrible but I will never, ever change it. This is my baby girl and me, 14 years ago.


And this is my baby girl and me today (taken last month at the Yankee Candle flagship store). Do we look like mother and daughter? People tell me we do but I don't see it.

Emily, age 14, and me (holding a Whoopie Pie scented candle!).

Do you scrapbook and how long have you been doing it? I still like to do techniques that are considered old school. Are there any older techniques you'd like me to feature on my blog? Leave me a comment and let me know!

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Monday, August 27, 2012

Tutorial: DIY Ceramic Tile Coasters

ceramic tile coasters

Back in 2011 I bought a set of four ceramic tile coasters at a local craft fair. Most of the coasters the woman was selling were stamped, but I fell in love with a set that was made with pretty red & black floral scrapbook paper on an ivory background. They match my living room perfectly. I told myself way back then that I wanted to make these someday. Being a crafter myself, I could tell they're pretty easy to make. I didn't want to ask the seller her secrets so I took my new coasters home and admire them every time I use one (which is every single day). 

Since then I've seen them everywhere online - mostly Etsy and Pinterest - but also on blogs and craft sites. Etsy sellers are selling them for anywhere from $10 to $20 for a set of four, which is fine if you're not a do-it-yourselfer who knows you can make them for a fraction of that cost. (sellers that charge less than $10 aren't paying themselves enough for the time spent making them)

I've found a ton of tutorials online for how to make these. Most are pretty much the same with a few differences here and there (mainly cost to make and the glue and sealer used). I finally found something that worked for me.

After gathering all the supplies needed, I spent a few days making a set as a housewarming gift for my nephew and his fiance. Let me just say that you should probably not make your first set as a gift, but I felt fairly confident in my abilities to do this. Besides, if I screwed up I bought plenty of tiles to make another set. 

That's my daughter baking brownies behind my pile of supplies. :)

Supplies:
Four 4" ceramic tiles from Lowe's, Home Depot, etc., washed and dried
Mod Podge or Elmer's White Glue and water
Foam brush
Four squares of scrapbook paper cut a little smaller than your tiles
Rustoleum Crystal Clear Enamel
Four squares of felt cut to fit the bottoms of the tiles (I just noticed the felt isn't in my photo - oops)
newspaper to protect your work surface
well ventilated area for spraying the Rustoleum

Every tutorial I read said you can find tiles dirt cheap (5 cents each - seriously?). I found tiles at Lowe's on clearance for 35 cents each. They'd marked them down a whopping 2 cents each. Woo hoo! I bought 20 tiles with the intention of making a few coaster sets as gifts and possibly a set for myself. I picked up a small bottle of Elmer's Glue at Lowe's for $1.69. I'm sure I could have gotten it at Wally World for much less but I was at Lowe's and didn't feel like making a special trip to Walmart. I'm a scrapbooker so the paper was already in my stash. I paid 50 cents for the sheet and still have half the sheet left after cutting out four squares. I found the Rustoleum in the paint dept. of Walmart for less than $4.00 - I'm pretty sure it'll last for all the sets I plan to make. I also bought a package foam brushes at Walmart. They charge $1.50 for a bag of 12 assorted size brushes or you can buy one brush for 75 cents. It was kind of a no-brainer to get the whole bag. I bought four 9x12 pieces of felt at JoAnn's for 34 cents each. I'll save the extras for future projects. 

If you don't have Mod Podge, or don't want to invest in Mod Podge, you can make your own using Elmer's White Glue and water. I had a bottle of Mod Podge but it dried up so I went with Plan B, which was to use Elmer's and water. I bought a small 4 oz. bottle and poured the whole thing into a small deli container (use a container that you don't care about ruining). I then filled the glue bottle with water and added a small amount at a time to the glue in the bowl. I stirred with a craft stick and added small amounts of water until it was the consistency I wanted. I've read tutorials that say to use 1/2 white glue, 1/2 water but in my opinion that would have made it way too watery. I think I used roughly 2 oz of water to the 4 oz of glue. This is how it looked when I was done mixing. Not that you can tell the consistency in the photo, but you get a general idea. 


Once I had my newspaper laid out, my tiles washed and dried and my glue mixed up, I began my project. Using the 3" brush that came in the package, I brushed the surface of the tile with the glue mixture, then laid the scrapbook paper over it. You have time to move it around. Smooth it out carefully to get any bubbles out. I didn't have any problem with bubbles but I think it's because my paper was thick. Do one tile at a time so your glue doesn't dry before you get the paper on. Once that's all done, rinse your brush out really well with water and go find something to do while they dry. I think I waited about a half hour or so.


The next step is to Mod Podge over the paper. Try to coat it evenly and give it time to dry between coats. I did three coats of Mod Podge. This step took several hours because I wanted to make sure they were dry between coats. Again, watch for bubbles and gently smooth them out. You don't want to tear your paper. Rinse your brush out thoroughly between coats. If the Mod Podge dries on your brush it'll pretty much be useless. I should also mention that after this step was done, I still had plenty of my homemade Mod Podge left to make another set. 


After I knew my tiles were dry (I waited a few days to do the next step), I brought the project outside to spray them with sealer. My neighbors must have thought I was nuts because I kept moving the table out of the sun. By the time I sprayed my last coat my work table was clear across the other side of the yard. LOL

Follow the directions on the Rustoleum can and spray the tiles evenly. I tried my best to keep them out of the sun (next time I'll use the garage) and from under the trees so Mother Nature didn't mess up all my hard work. The Rustoleum seals them and gives them a little bit of a gloss. I did three coats (my husband thought it wasn't necessary to do that many but these are coasters and I want to make sure they don't get damaged by condensation). I let each coat dry for at least an hour. 


After all the Mod Podging and sealer spraying, it was time to glue the felt on the bottom. I was unsure how to go about doing this, but it seemed to me (and internet searching told me this) that the best option for gluing felt to tile is hot glue. We have a hot glue gun but I personally have never used it. My daughter has, and she told me I'd have about 30 seconds to position my felt before the hot glue sets. Wrong. For my first coaster I applied glue to the entire bottom of the tile before putting the felt down, then realized that the glue had set completely before I got the felt on. Ugh. I'd gotten this far without screwing something up and now the bottom was a mess. I added more hot glue and worked quickly to get the felt on. The first one came out a hot mess (no pun intended), with glue showing on the edge of the felt. It's hard to see in this pic but it's there.


I slowed down for the other coasters and while I still had a few mishaps, it went better. I now know to apply the hot glue to tiny areas and work fast. The other coasters didn't come out as messy looking.


I showed my daughter the first coaster and she told me she didn't even notice the glue drips. I forced myself to let go of my perfectionism and reminded myself that the glue is on the bottom and no one is going to notice it. If I planned on selling them that would be a different story, but since I'm not my gift recipients are going to get them with all their little imperfections. 


I had the cost breakdown written down but I lost the yellow sticky note. I can tell you that this set of four cost me less than $4.00 to make. What did I say they're going for on Etsy - $10-$20? Considering most of the time spent making them is waiting for them to dry (and you can be cleaning house, watching TV, napping, playing games on Facebook or surfing Pinterest while you do that), the labor is minimal. 

These were a gift so I bought a roll of matching ribbon at Wally World ($1.99), tied a pretty bow around them and added a little tag (punched from one of my many paper punches) to let them know they were handmade by their favorite auntie. 


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Saturday, August 25, 2012

Accountability Saturday Launch Aug. 25


I've been thinking about starting an "Accountability Saturday" feature for awhile. I don't know about anyone else, but I need to make myself accountable for many of  the personal choices I make. Whether physical, mental, material...all those choices make me who I am. Lately I haven't been making the best choices and I'm feeling the affects. I've been giving a lot of thought to which direction I want to take with certain parts of my life. Most of those things aren't life changing when you look at the big picture. However, some are health related and need to take a priority. Some things I do are affecting others in a negative way and definitely need to be addressed and changed.

Here's a sample of things that need changing:

  • Sleep - I never get enough and I admit it's 100% my own fault.
  • Computer time needs to be cut way back. I have good intentions of updating the blog, listing items no Etsy, etc. then get distracted with Facebook, Pinterest and anything else that looks cool.
  • No motivation. I literally have to force myself to cook dinner, clean the house, etc. It's not that I never do it. I cook everyday, I clean once a week (or more, depending on what it is), I do laundry most days. My house isn't filthy, our clothes are clean, my family is fed. I just hate doing those things. I want it all to become more tolerable.
  • Crafts - I have a million projects in my head but #2 on the list paralyzes me.
Today is my starting point, the day I start focusing on my actions and paying attention to how they affect my life. This will include diet, exercise, sleep (a big issue for me), money and anything and everything that needs improvement. It will be a work in progress and it might even get a little ugly before it gets better! The goal is to keep a small journal to highlight the good and not-so-good choices I make in a day. On Accountability Saturday I'll post what I wrote in my journal that week and my thoughts about my choices.

I'm hoping others will follow along and share their own stories. Maybe it'll inspire others to become more aware of how their choices affect their health and family. There's always room for improvement.


Tuesday, August 21, 2012

Housewarming Card from Silhouette Kit

silhouette detailed house card kit

My daughter and I went to a housewarming party for my nephew and his new fiance the other day (they just announced their engagement last weekend!). I'm very excited for them. They've been together a long time. She's a very nice girl who fits right into our family. I made them a set of ceramic tile coasters (blog post coming soon!) and this housewarming card that's supposed to resemble their house. I based the colors on info that was given to me. Some of the details aren't quite the same as their 'real' house but I think it came out adorable. The giant bluebird taking over the house is mine. :)

I purchased the Detailed House Card Kit from the Silhouette Online Store. Instead of using the flowers provided in the kit, I used punch art flowers. The next time I make one of these I'll use the flowers that come in the kit. My glue pen and I didn't get along very well while I was glueing down the punch art flowers. The larger piece in the kit would have been easier to work with. I lined the inside of the card with white cardstock to give it a clean, finished look. It made it a little bulky and it was a bit of a challenge to get the two pieces to line up exactly, but it ended up looking nice.

All in all, I love how this card came out. I can't wait for someone else to have a housewarming party so I can make another!

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Friday, August 17, 2012

New Friday Sketch!


I love how this sketch came out! The best part is that I whipped it up in less than 30 minutes! This sketch was inspired by a rough draft digi layout I did for my son's prom pics. I plan to do a traditional scrapbook page using this as my guide. (I think I have three small pics to go on the bottom instead of the two shown here) I love how all the flowers fall diagonally across the layout. The flowers are from a digital scrapbooking kit called Bloom that I got for free from www.computerscrapbook.com. The sketch was was created in Adobe InDesign CS3.

Now for my disclaimers: You're welcome to print this out for your own personal use. Please do not sell or submit scrapbook pages or cards made from this sketch. Feel free to Pin this image but be sure to link it back to this blog page.

If you're interested in more scrapbook sketches, click the sketch links on the sidebar at the top of this page. 

Sunday, August 5, 2012

Beach!


Emily got away but her friend got overtaken by this massive wave. LOL

There's one thing to say about New England and it's that we love our beaches!

I took my daughter, Emily, and her friend to Misquamicut Beach in Westerly, Rhode Island last Friday (my men are no longer interested in the beach). It figures that beach day fell during the middle of a heat wave. I can't remember ever having such a hot day at the ocean. Usually there's a nice ocean breeze to keep you comfortable but on that particular day, it was HOT! The air was heavy and oppressive. The girls spent most of the day playing in the waves. I spent a good chunk of the day in the water for the simple reason that it was too hot to snooze on the blanket. The waves were pretty impressive that day and the water was a "warm" 72°. We had good people around us who were well behaved and pretty quiet (no screaming kids - not that I don't like kids but my teenagers are past that stage). As you can tell from the two pics I included here, the girls had a great time.

Emily's friend doesn't see what's coming!

I came home with a pretty good (by good I mean bad) sunburn. I have all the tell tale signs of where I missed with the sunscreen. I've got some lovely splotches of red mixed in with tan on my face. My rarely see the light of day chest area (*cough*cleavage*cough) got pretty red, thanks to the fact that I completely missed it with the sunscreen. And worst of all, I asked Emily to put lotion on my back and then both of us completely forgot to do it. Doh! I realized it after about four hours, most of which was spent in the water. Double doh! Surprisingly, my back doesn't hurt much. It's those two bright red patches just above the girls that really sting. Aloe has been my best friend for the past 36 hours!

After a long day at the beach, we took a cool shower to rinse the sand and salt off, then packed up the car for the 2+ hour drive home to Massachusetts. We made our traditional stop at DQ in Willimansett, Conn. for hot dogs and ice cream before continuing on our journey. Emily entertained us by singing and playing Veggie Tales songs on her iPod. Gotta love teenage girls. :)

Wednesday, August 1, 2012

Recipe: Duggars' Tater Tot Casserole

Holy moly! I just realized it's already August 1st. I hope everyone's having a good summer. My kids don't go back to school until the end of this month so I get to enjoy a few more weeks of sleeping in. I still have to get up early two mornings a week because of my work schedule, but on the other five I get to snooooooze!!

I know it's a little warm to be making casserole recipes right now, but with my family's odd schedule (now that my son is working he's not home for dinner a few days a week), I try to make easy meals that can be reheated. Last weekend I remembered how easy (although unhealthy!) the Duggars' tater tot casserole recipe is. You all know who the Duggars are, right? In case you've been hiding under a rock for the past few years, they're the 19 Kids and Counting family on TLC. My daughter and I watch their show every week. While I personally would never choose to have 19 kids, I don't judge or begrudge them. They're self supporting, take nothing from the government and their kids are happy. They aren't hanging out on the streets at night doing who knows what with who knows who.

Anyway, I digress. I apologize for not having a photo for this recipe. I'm going to start working on that. The problem is that my kitchen is very small and I'm usually too busy actually cooking to stop to set up a photo shoot. This tater tot casserole recipe is super quick to throw together - the part that takes the longest is browning the meat. You can do that ahead of time so it makes it go together that much faster. The Duggars' original recipe is double what I have here but seeing as I have a family of four and they have a family of 21, I chose to cut it in half. ;)

Duggars' Tater Tot Casserole

1 lb ground turkey (I use ground beef)
1 can evaporated milk (I use the small can)
1 can cream of chicken soup
1 can cream of mushroom soup
1 32 oz. bag of frozen tater tots
Shredded cheddar (optional)
Frozen veggies like corn, mixed, green beans, etc. (optional)

Brown the meat, drain the fat and spread it evenly on the bottom of a greased 9x13 baking dish. Pour the entire bag of tater tots over the meat and spread them out evenly. At this point you can sprinkle a little shredded cheese over the tater tots if you want. Mix the milk and soups in a bowl until well blended and pour the mixture evenly over the tater tots. Bake uncovered at 350 for 55-60 minutes. Serves 8.

Another option is to layer frozen veggies between the meat and tater tots. I meant to do that last weekend when I made this but I forgot. It's really no big deal if you forget to include it because the veggie can be served on the side. To keep this as low cost as possible, use generic brand everything.

Enjoy!

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Monday, July 23, 2012

My baby is 14!

Happy birthday to my beautiful daughter, Emily! She's 14 today! It's hard to believe my baby girl is going to be a freshman in high school next month! Wasn't it just yesterday that I dropped her off at preschool?

Happy birthday to my favorite girl!

Here's Emily all dressed up for her school's semi-formal dance this past March.

Sunday, July 22, 2012

Uncharted Territory

My husband and I are entering uncharted territory and a new phase of parenthood.

High school senior.

My son will be entering his senior year at the end of August. Not only that, but next weekend he's taking his road test for his driver's license. Eeek! Which is scarier?

I think the school part is the scariest - at least for me. For him it's exciting. He's going to "rule the school!" to quote Rizzo from Grease. He's talking about college - a lot. He's talking about moving across the country "to get out of this area." It's not the moving away part that scares me. It would be a huge - and I mean huge - transition and growing up experience for him. His Mama (that would be me) is guilty of doing too much for him. He could use a healthy dose of doing grown up stuff like his own laundry, cooking, etc. (which up until now he makes no attempt at learning even when I try to teach him). But the scary part for me is and always has been the cost. How do we put our child through college when we're just making ends meet for the family now? How do you tell your child that the yearly tuition for the school he's looking at is more than half our yearly income? He's working and saving money but he also has an expensive hobby- computers. He wants to build his own computer. If he's successful with this I know it would look good for him. It's what he's been learning at the vocational school for the past three years and what he wants to do in the future. How many 17 year old kids can build their own computer? However, I can't help but see the dollars he's putting into this project.

Then we move onto the driver's license part of this whole being 17 thing. On the one hand, it'll be great to have another driver in the house. We won't have to drive him back and forth to work. I won't have to rush out of work in the afternoon to make sure he gets to his job on time. But to do all that he needs a vehicle. It's been pretty much decided that we'll give him let him use my husband's 10 year old pick up truck. My husband needs a new vehicle. The old truck is worth squat as a trade-in so we figured we might as well keep it. Which brings up the issue of more money going out in the form of a newer vehicle, new registration,  insurance on that third (newer) vehicle and higher insurance rates from having a junior driver on our policy. Oh, did I mention that my husband is looking at vehicles that cost $25,000 to $30,000 and we have no trade-in? I'm trying to get him to lower his standards but I haven't succeeded yet. We're not poor but we're not even close to being rich. We get by with very few extras.


See why I'm just a tad stressed?


Have you gone through these milestones in your children's lives yet? Got any tips to keep me from going insane with worry?

Monday, February 27, 2012

What I've been up to...beads, migraines and teenage drama

I've been busy making pretty things with beads and things. I see to have caught the jewelry making bug from my daughter these days. I can't help myself. I get carried away when I'm in the beading dept. at JoAnn's. They had a great sale during President's Day weekend and I splurged just a little. I didn't do as much damage as I thought I would. LOL So far I've created these with my new supplies:

Hot pink memory wire bracelet

Chartreuse & ivory memory wire bracelet 

Matching earrings

I still have more beads to play with. I need to give myself a break between making things so my brain doesn't get burned out.

The other things I've been dealing with are my 13 year old daughter's health issues. She's been feeling sick on and off for about six months. Wow, I didn't realize it's been that long until I did the math. It started out last Sept. with what I thought (and still think) was a sinus infection. She has seasonal allergies and last year was rough on her. The doctor said it wasn't an infection but I still disagree. She never fully recovered after that. She spent months feeling run down, tired, headachey. I brought her to the doctor once a month from Nov. until last week. In Nov. the doctor did blood work and tested for mono and low iron. He told me the tests showed she's slightly anemic but nothing else came up. In December I took her for her regular check-up. We mentioned daily headaches to the doctor, but she was so rushed to get out for Christmas (the appt. was 2:00 pm on Dec. 23) that her issues weren't dealt with. In January I brought her in again for the headaches. This time the doctor treated her for a sinus infection. He prescribed a Z-pack with a refill. She took both rounds and the headaches continued. *sigh* Last week I requested that she be seen by the doctor who did the blood work last fall. OMG This doctor is so wonderful. I think he gave her a full 45 mins. of his time to figure it out. As he went through her blood results from last fall he briefly mentioned "when she had mono," which caused me to stop him and say "whoa, what did you say?" He never told me back in Nov. that she had mono. This time he clarified that the results weren't conclusive but she definitely had some type of virus going on. I strongly believe it was mono - she was miserable for at least a month or two. Anyway, the diagnosis last week is what I've been suspecting for a few weeks myself - migraines. The poor girl has been miserable. Not just her, but the rest of us having to deal with her terrible moods. I don't blame her. If I had a headache every single day I'd be a miserable person too. He prescribed a preventative medicine that she takes every night before bed. It's been one week and I think I have my daughter back. She's happier than I've seen her in a long time. The kids were on vacation last week so today is the first day back to school since she started her medicine. Last night she said she was afraid she'd feel sick again today because of the long hours she has to be at school (she has drama everyday until 6:00 for the next two weeks). I haven't received any texts from her today telling me she doesn't feel well. That is a milestone. 

My son has had his own drama going on. He's 16 and has been dating the same girl for about 18 months. They broke up recently, which surprised me but I don't pry. It's between him and her. He was never shy about telling me how he felt about her in the past. I told him I'm here if he wants to talk but he hasn't opened up. Recently I found out the reason behind the break up through a Facebook post on her page. I wasn't snooping - her page isn't private so anyone can see it. From what I can tell he's taken the high road, but what she's done must have broken his heart. I don't think he wanted to break it off but it was for the best. That's the part that bothers me. Someone hurt my boy and I don't like it. 10 years down the road hopefully she'll feel bad for stringing him along for so long. She's only 15 so I can't condemn her for being immature, but she has a lot of growing up to do. He on the other hand, seems to be doing ok and is spending more time with his guy friends. I hope he takes a break from girls for awhile. They create too much drama.

Monday, January 30, 2012

Four New Layouts

I'm proud to say I've managed to get a few layouts done in the past couple of months. I made a commitment to myself to attend the monthly crops at our local scrapbook store. I made a Boy Scout scrapbook as a Christmas gift for my son at the November and December crops. I figured since he made Eagle Scout back in June 2011 (proud Mom moment!!) I might as well start that Scout scrapbook I've been planning for the past five or so years. ;)

In January I got back into doing pages for me. Here are four that are actually complete. I have one more to finish but my son needs to do the journaling on it and I keep forgetting to ask him. Sorry for the poor photos. I'm still getting used to the new camera my son gave me for my birthday (he's such a good boy).

My daughter's 7th grade school pics. I had her do the journaling in her own handwriting.

My daughter's tap pics for 2009-2010 (I got a tad behind on the dance pics!). This one was very hard to photograph because of the shiny background paper.

My son got his first real job at the end of last summer. *sob* He's a cashier/bagger at the local grocery store. I can't believe he let me take these photos. lol

This is a pic that's taken me a while to sit down and scrap. This is my husband laid up in bed after his terrible, awful work accident in May 2010. When someone in the house is sick or hurt my cat Flower will stay with that person for hours. In this case she sat on my husband's chest as if she was telling him not to try to go anywhere (he was stubborn about wanting to do things for himself when he clearly couldn't). There's an orange reflection on the pic right where she is but the arrow is pointing to her.

Friday, August 19, 2011

Wow, where did the time go?

I didn't intend to abandon my blog. Life just got in the way.

The biggest issue was the pain. I'm not one to whine when a body part is in pain but this was downright depressing. It started with a toothache back in February. It was supposed to end with a root canal on March 2, followed by a permanent crown. Instead it lingered on and on. I endured the placement of three temporary crowns, one permanent crown in between the second and third temp, the removal of a poor fitting permanent crown (which was a miserable procedure for me). Sometime during all that I made a few trips to the endodontist to find the reason for the pain that was constantly present.  I had a mini meltdown in my dentist's office last month when he told me the first permanent crown had to be removed. I was frustrated and tired of the pain that I'd been living with for six months. I wanted it to be over. I finally got a second permanent crown two weeks ago, placed with temporary adhesive incase something goes wrong again. I could tell right away that it was a much better fit, but I wasn't pain free immediately. That brought me down for a few days. I needed to be pain free. Anyone who has lived with daily pain will understand what I mean. I went back to my dentist a few days later to have him check it out. He said everything looked ok, to give it time and see what happens. My mouth was incredibly irritated by the temp crown and it needed to heal. This is where the angels start singing. Everyday after that it felt a little bit better. Not a lot, because that would be too good to be true. This past Monday I reached my turning point. I ate lunch on my shiny new crown without  giving pain a second thought. I have since measured my level of pain each day and it's now about 99.8% gone. Angels singing even louder. I never thought this day would come.

That is the biggest reason I haven't blogged. I was so overshadowed by  pain, whether it was intense or minor,  everything else in my life took a backseat.

I can't make any promises to myself or anyone else about whether I'll get back to blogging. I love my little blog and miss posting. Life promises to slow down for me in a couple of weeks when the kids go back to school. Here are a couple of interesting things I plan to write about in the near future:

My son made Eagle Scout earlier this summer. His ceremony is at the end of August.

My mother is turning 90 years old in September. My siblings and I bought her a digital frame (she's legally blind and can't see printed photos very well anymore). My sisters and I have spent hours scanning old family photos and downloading them onto the frame. We've still have a lot more to do.

My son got his first job. We all know how hard it is for teens to find work in this economy. He was lucky to get hired as a cashier by our local grocery chain. He started a week ago and since he doesn't drive yet, that leaves my husband and me to taxi him back and forth.

I've been scrapping! Can you believe it? I purged a good chunk of my supplies last spring, hoping it would motivate me to start fresh. It took a few more months for the creative juices to start flowing again, but I've done two pages in the last couple of weeks. I scrapped a pic of my best friend and me just last week and I can't wait to share it. I'm very happy with how it turned out. I've got my mojo back!

Sunday, April 24, 2011

Thursday, April 21, 2011

Extreme Couponing - saving money or hoarding?

I've been watching Extreme Couponing on TLC. As much as I can't stand watching what these people do, I also can't pry myself away from the TV. It's like a train wreck. These people spend hours planning their trips to the grocery store. They have stacks of coupons, file systems, computers and shelves in every room to store their hauls, which once they get them home are called "stock piles." Why someone needs 1000 tubes of Colgate toothpaste is beyond me. But hey, they were all free so why not take them home right? This guy made no mention of donating them to a food bank. sigh Even if he had a huge family and went through one tube a day, it would still take almost three years to use them all. Does toothpaste even last that long? Ick. The sad part is the guy got even more toothpaste on the shopping trip that TLC filmed. He donated it to our troops. Why didn't he just donate from his own stockpile?

Then there's the mustard lady. This woman needs to get her priorities straight. She bought 67 bottles of mustard. She cleared the shelf because they were on sale and she had coupons. We wouldn't want to be considerate and leave something for the next customer. Eye roll. The real kicker is - well, actually there's more than one kicker. The first is that her husband told her he doesn't like mustard. She just giggled, looked at the camera and said "I keep forgetting that." Duh. The second thing is she didn't get the 67 bottles for free, she paid .37 each for them! That comes to almost $25 for freaking mustard that she doesn't need! There's also allegations of coupon fraud regarding this woman. You can read about it here and here.

I could go on and on about the hours wasted spent planning a shopping trip and the extreme stockpiling. When every waking moment is spent combing over flyers, coupon inserts, computer databases and spreadsheets, maybe it's less about saving money and more of an obsession. When your stockpile takes over every room of your house, when you're storing toilet paper under your kid's bed, when the shower is filled with paper towels, when the garage is filled with more toothpaste than you'll ever need, when you have a stockpile of cat treats but you don't own a cat, when you own more than 50 bottles of laundry detergent but you keep getting more - maybe it's becoming a little bit of a problem. Because really, if you have that much stockpiled, why continue shopping? Is it because you have nothing better to do?

Speaking of coupon inserts, where do these people get their stockpiles of inserts? The mustard lady claimed that the newspaper carrier dropped the extras off at her house. Another lady wouldn't reveal her source, probably because she knows it's illegal. There are contracts in place between advertisers and newspapers. All inserts need to be accounted for and any leftovers are shredded and recycled. Leftover inserts are not supposed to be sold or given away for free, period. You can read a short explanation here.

I realize TLC's Extreme Couponing is hyped up for ratings. All of the couponers say it's their biggest shopping trip. That may be true, but their stockpiles tell me otherwise. Maybe they don't normally buy $1,000 worth of groceries for $10, but based on what their homes look like, they're buying in extreme quantities and hoarding their purchases.

What really aggravates me are the shelf clearers. Just this morning I wanted to buy Swiffer's furniture polish (the exact name escapes me at the moment). I have one little coupon that expires on April 30. It's a buy one get one free so it's a decent coupon. I'm not being greedy. I only want two cans. Two cans would last me forever. Yet when I tried to buy some this morning the shelf was cleared of that one item. Grrrr. My daughter blamed Extreme Couponing. ha! At least there's 9 days before the coupon expires and I can try again next week.

I prefer not to do extreme couponing. I like having a life that doesn't involve eating, breathing and dreaming about coupons. That would drive me insane. I follow a few coupon sites on Facebook but I don't print out everything they list. My local grocery store won't accept most internet coupons but Walmart does. I considered it a successful shopping trip this morning when I brought my total down from $71.72 to $64.48 with coupons. It would have been even better had I been able to buy the Swiffer furniture polish! That was at Walmart and I used only $1.00 & $2.00 coupons.

Check out the coupon sites I follow on Facebook:
Wicked Cool Deals (my favorite because they're local to me)
Hey It's Free
Common Sense with Money

So what do you think of extreme couponing? Is it a money saver or wasteful?

Tuesday, November 9, 2010

Free e-book: Thanksgiving Your Way 2010


Download this free e-book that includes recipes, traditions and decorating ideas for your Thanksgiving holiday. There's also a section of printables including a menu planner, calendar and guest list. This is a great freebie!

Click here to download: Thanksgiving Your Way 2010

Monday, October 25, 2010

No-Sew Blanket Tutorial

no sew blanket tutorial

I love making no-sew blankets. They're super easy to put together, I don't have to drag out the sewing machine and best of all, they're warm and cozy! I've made seven blankets - all as gifts except the one in the photo above. That one is mine. The first blanket I ever made was a February birthday gift for my adult stepdaughter. My kids - her younger siblings - were so jealous that I made each of them a blanket the following Christmas. Happiness. My son Adam used his so much it wore thin, not to mention he grew so tall that it became too short for him. Emily still keeps hers on her bed and sleeps with it every night. A few years later I made a red & gray blanket for my husband's birthday. I think I used it more than he did. I decided at that point that it was about time I made one for me. I bought solid green and bright striped fleece on sale at Jo-Ann's. I took it home and put the bag in the corner of my bedroom with my other projects. There it sat while other stuff became a priority. Last Christmas I made Adam a new, longer blanket to accommodate his now 5'8" frame. I ordered the fabric online from Jo-Ann's and they sent an extra yard of each piece. Bonus! I used the extra fabric to make a blanket for the cats, yet I still didn't have mine. *sigh*

Fast forward to last Wednesday when my kids were both home from school sick. I took the day off because Adam was running a temp. I don't mess with fevers. Anyway, what better opportunity to finally make my blanket than on an unexpected day off from work. I opened the bag of fabric and discovered an old Jo-Ann's flyer tucked inside. It was dated February 2007. It took three and a half years but I am finally getting my very own blanket!

I decided to spread the joy and post a tutorial right here on my blog. There really is no sewing involved. I've gotten so good at these that I can whip one up in less than two hours. I work on my bed while I watch TV to make the time go by faster.

Here's what you'll need to make a blanket:

1. Two pieces of fleece. I like to use a solid and a pattern or two contrasting colors. You can make whatever your little heart desires. I make big blankets. I use 2 yards of each color for a child or to use as a throw. If you're making it for a taller adult or want to use it as a blanket on a bed, I suggest getting 2 1/2 to 3 yards of each color. I used 3 yards for Adam's newest blanket. It's very long but he uses it on his bed and he needs the extra length. Jo-Ann's has their fleece on sale a lot. If it's not on sale, bring two coupons and make two separate purchases (a single cut piece of fabric counts as one item).

2. Scissors, tape measure or ruler, straight pins.

3. A large flat area to spread out your fabric. I always use my queen size bed.

That's it.

1. Lay out your fabric so it's smooth. Place one piece on top the other so the edges are lined up. 

2. I didn't worry about the lettering on the edge of the striped fabric. (though I don't know why they did that) You'll see at the end that it actually ads more color to the fringe. I also don't trim the curled edge but you can if you want to. It's one extra step I prefer not to do.

3. Hold the fabric in place by placing pins 4" from the edge around all four sides (you'll be using the pins as a guide for cutting). See my little ruler in the photo? I've had that since 7th grade. It still has my name written on a piece of masking tape on the back. It's hard to believe I was Emily's age when my mom bought me my first sewing kit for home ec class. Anyway, moving on...

4. Cut the corners out through both layers like this. You should be cutting off a 4" square.

5. Cut the edges into strips, about 1" apart. Use the pins as a guide as to how far in from the edge to cut. The width doesn't have to be perfect but keep them all the same length.  

6. Start tying. I tie in double knots. Do your corners first. I do one or two knots on each side of the corner, then do a few more to hold it in place. I gently tug and smooth out the fabric as I go so it lies smooth.

Hey, that's me! I usually cut and tie one edge at a time so I don't get bored just doing one thing.


7. See how colorful the fringe looks? This is the edge with the letters that I mentioned earlier. You can't even tell what it looked like before.


All done! Emily took this silly pic of me wrapped up in my new, toasty warm blanket! The nights are getting pretty cold so I'm happy I finally got around to making this.

These make great gifts! Watch for sales on fleece so you can make a warm and cozy blanket for a loved one. If you start now you've got plenty of time to make a few before Christmas. This would also make an awesome baby shower gift.


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